A Parent’s Guide to Executive Functions – Helping Disorganized, Inattentive, and Forgetful Kids

Executive functions are the brain skills that childrenfunctions, what is "normal" for certain age groups and
and adolescents use for a variety of thinking tasks -when there is cause for concern. It offers practical
including organization, planning, attention, self-controlimprovement strategies for both parents and
(also called regulation, self-monitoring or emotionalteachers of children and adolescents. The author also
control), self-awareness, flexibility, initiationhas a wonderful website that includes an executive
(motivation), and working memory. These are skillsskills checklist so you can review if your child may
that develop throughout youth, sometimes into ahave a challenge with one or more executive
person's early to mid-twenties.functions, a newsletter, and lots of practical parenting
So if your child is forever losing personal items, getsinformation.
to homework at the last minute, has melt-downsAnother similar book is "Late, Lost and Unprepared "
over small things, or isn't achieving as expected inby psychologists Joyce Cooper Kahn and Laurie
school, you may be looking at delayed executive skillDietzel. Along with offering hundreds of
development.common-sense interventions for a variety of
Executive dysfunction is found in children and teenssituations, these caring authors remind us to be
of all ability levels. It is a common in children withcompassionate and offer empathy to children with
learning disabilities and ADHD. It is also frequentlythese problems.
seen in children with very high IQ - thinkAlso, "Executive Skills in Children and Adolescents: A
"absent-minded professor."Practical Guide to Assessment and Intervention" by
So before you punish your child, demand a meetingschool psychologist Peg Guare, EdD and
with school teachers, or ask your child's doctor for aneuropsychologist Richard Guare, PhD is an excellent
prescription, there are two key things to know:guide for clinicians wishing to review the assessment
1) It's not usually an attitude problem - it's a brainand treatment options.  They also wrote the more
processing problemparent-geared "Smart But Scattered: The
2) These skills can be improvedRevolutionary "Executive Skills" Approach to Helping
In order to help your child develop these critical skills,Kids Reach Their Potential."
there are a few parent-friendly books on the topic.Being an informed parent about executive skills can
The primary book is "No Mind Left Behind -save you and your child a lot of unnecessary stress,
Understanding and Fostering Executive Control - Theconflict and failure. These books provide valuable
Eight Essential Brain Skills Every Child Needs toresources to help your child or teen to be successful
Thrive" by clinical psychologist Adam J. Cox, PhD. Thisin school and life.
book clearly explains the eight different executive