Relationship Building for New Recruiters

How do you build a relationship in one phone call? It's"You're funny, not like other recruiters".
a challenge. My approach is very simple. IIn the world of recruiting consultants building
fundamentally value the time of the candidate I amrelationships is difficult because if the candidate is on
calling. I greatly resent wasting people's time withthe job board, he has potentially dozens of other
useless questions and selling tactics. I get straight torecruiters calling him. Building a relationship takes time,
the point. Sometimes this makes my calls ratherwhile the recruiting cycle of a consulting candidate
short, other times I can spend10-15 minutes on thecan be as short as 24 hours. One drawback of this
phone with the candidate.kind of recruiting is that while we speak with
So what's my goal? I want to make the candidatethousands of people, we build relationships with a
laugh. If the candidate is interested in speaking withfew. National recruiting is even harder because the
me, I might get right into the thick of things or Irecruiter never meets the candidate. Passive
might talk about the weather. Living in Bostoncandidates often want permanent jobs and thus are
provides me with an incredible array of weatherhard to recruit for contract opportunities.
conversation topics. I can usually joke about how badSo just be yourself, don't pretend to know all the
it is and how much I miss the sunshine. (Even now it'sanswers. Try not to waste people's time. Qualify
dark and gloomy outside). I want to make ayour candidate before you call him. And don't ask
connection that is natural, I don't force it. Sometimessenior people basic questions. Don't ask a Java
I compliment the candidate on their expertise,architect what OOD is. Don't ask a Network Engineer
sometimes I get them to talk to me about theirif he has experience with TCP/IP. You'll sound
career, but not in a dry chronological manner, more inignorant. It's hard at first, but know your req before
a philosophical way. I've had several people tell me;you call to build a relationship.