Top Ten Best Excuses To Not Use The Time Of Your Life

“Time is on my side, yes, it is!” Each time I think6. I have no patience!
of time, Mike Jagger’s melody enters myThe gardener does not watch every single second if
mind… For me it is a song, for another a tragedy.his tomatoes have grown, nor does the expecting
What is time, that it consumes so many of us; howmother ask her baby to be born before term! The
much of it we have, how little, what to do with it,mystery of creation and creativity demands that one
how to conjugate it? The following “humanrespects nature’s timing. From the perspective
reasons” are offered as the clever and humorousof allowing, how long it takes is irrelevant! Life, like
making of our mind time machine…art, takes what it takes, and as long as it will take.
1. I don’t have any!Today become pregnant with something; a book you
Time is generally viewed as a measurable device. Wewill once birth, a decluttering project, a fitness
are saving it, spending it, clocking it, wasting it,goal…
investing it! Time is money! Some of us experience7. I’m too busy!
lack, some abundance: If we just had money, weSidney J. Harris said it beautifully: “Indeed, the time
could buy ourselves time… If I just had time, Ito relax is when you don't have time for it.” Are
could make more money… I once read anyou hiding behind your busyness? Are you afraid to
unforgettable fortune cookie: “it is not asfind out that you don’t know what to do with
important to count time, as it is to make timeyourself if you were to stop? Is the fear of
count.” Choose a moment today to use and utilizeemptiness making you fill time? Today do something
fully!full-filling: go see some great art, really taste your
2. My time or yours?food, talk to a stranger as if he were a friend…
This one concerns the overly committed, who is8. I didn’t do it!
serving on so many committees, and helping so manyMost teenagers cannot wait to be older, and most
friends, she has no time to take care of herselfmiddle age people regret their youth. Then there is
adequately. Time to learn to say “no” to others,the viewpoint of time being too long when in pain,
and “yes” to my goals. Today pick an occasiontoo short when in joy, too slow when bored, too
to say a simple “no, thank you” and dofast when passionate… Byron Katie wrote:
something in that time you had never done before!“there is no beginning of time, only beginning of
3. I was born that way!thought.” Experience it for yourself: right now,
“As long as I recall, I have always been late.” Isremember a very happy event in your life. Got it?
being late a statement you enjoy making? Or areNext, right now, imagine what you might be 10 years
you late because you attempt to do too much at afrom now… Would you then agree that the past
time, and try to prove your worth by schedulingand the future only exist from the decision you made
more in a span of time that it can possibly contain?in this moment to bring them to your consciousness?
Today do whatever it takes to arrive 10 minutes9. This is Miller time
early to a meeting, and experience the expansion ofI love it: there is sunrise, sunset, and Miller time!
your momentum…Isn’t it correct that you find time for what
4. I am not ready!you want to do, and love to do, be it drinking a beer,
There have been times where I have used destinyexercising, writing, or socializing? So if you cannot find
and Ecclesiastes’ saying (For everything theretime to clean house for example, would it be
is a season and a time for every purpose underappropriate to say that you did not choose to make
heaven,) as a reason to not change. “My timetime? Ask yourself today what is the real reason
hadn’t come,” I would say! The soberingbehind you’re not finding time to do such and
thought about waiting for the perfect time orsuch? Begin to change your ritual today to align with
procrastinating is that tomorrow might never come.your conscious decision.
To add to the dilemma, “I’m not ready”10. I don’t NOW
may become “it’s too late!” Take actionA client once asked me how I could accomplish so
today on something you were not “ready” tomuch in so little time. Before I could say anything, my
do, dive, and watch your creative power soar!heart answered: “Simple, I stay in the moment!”
5. I’m in a hurry!The spontaneity of this revelation transformed both
This one is also about control, but in the otherof us. As long as I listen to my heart, my mind and
direction… The motion of life is oscillating, spiralingmy soul, and do what I am told to do, I find that
rather than straight and linear. Today, stop pushingthere is time for everything, which makes for a life
the river: allow a certain amount of meandering timewell-lived. The feeling is magical, time stands still, and
in which to do nothing. As you develop a habit foreternity embraces one with the kiss of an ardent
that, watch events that you could never makelover. Just being here and now -- hear and know is
happen occur spontaneously! It’s all in theall… That is a magnificent gift, appropriately named
rhythm, man, all in the curve!“the present!